In a heartfelt and unexpected move, renowned music composer AR Rahman and his wife Saira Banu have announced their decision to separate after nearly three decades of marriage. The couple, who tied the knot in 1995, issued an official statement through Saira’s lawyer, Vandana Shah, confirming their split.
The statement reads, “On behalf of Mrs. Saira and her husband, renowned musician Allahrakka Rahman (A.R. Rahman), Vandana Shah and Associates issue the following statement regarding the couple’s decision to part ways. After many years of marriage, Mrs. Saira and Mr. A.R. Rahman have made the difficult decision to separate from each other. This decision comes after significant emotional strain in their relationship. Despite their deep love for each other, the couple has found that the tensions and difficulties have created an insurmountable gap between them, one that neither party feels able to bridge at this time.”
The statement further emphasized the emotional toll of the decision, stating that both parties had arrived at this conclusion with “pain and agony.” They also requested privacy during this difficult period, asking the public for understanding as they navigate this new chapter in their lives.
Family Life and Background
AR Rahman and Saira Banu, parents to three children—Khatija, Raheema, and Ameen—had built a life together over nearly 30 years. Their marriage was arranged by Rahman’s mother, who helped find a suitable match for him as he was deeply focused on his music career. Rahman had once shared in an interview with Simi Garewal that he was too occupied with work to find a bride on his own. At 29, he told his mother, “Find me a bride,” leading to the union with Saira Banu.
Their children have also publicly supported the couple’s request for privacy. In a recent post on Instagram, their son Ameen asked followers to “respect the family’s privacy” during this difficult time.
A Personal Loss and Wedding Joys
In 2022, Rahman’s daughter Khatija got married, and the family celebrated the occasion with a beautiful wedding ceremony. Rahman shared a touching family photo from the event, which featured a portrait of his late mother displayed near the seating area of the bride and groom, marking an emotional tribute to her.
As AR Rahman and Saira Banu move forward separately, their family and fans alike are respecting their need for space and compassion during this challenging moment.
